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Against my better judgment I went to the Blue Moon last night. Good beer, the cute bartender with the queer hair, and a mix of good house music and train wrecks. So far so normal, you say, but I ended up chatting with a lady with grey hair. It turns out that she and I have similar... tastes, and I don't just mean house music.

Didn't turn out my nightstand light until 2315. I only regret that slightly. I've already asked if she's going to the Monkey Loft on Saturday.

Gaydar is when you can tell who's queer. What is it called when you instinctively find the kinky folk in a vanilla space? Flaydar?

Nun hacks own brain?

Oct. 14th, 2025 11:39 am
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You may recall my griping about fall and reduction in daylight hours per day. Well, as I mooted in that entry, I did indeed get a small happy lamp. So far so good, as evidenced by:
  1. I seem to be capable of doing things in the early evening besides sleep.
  2. I can do the yoga tree pose right after lamp exposure, which is my usual time, without having difficulty with my balance. That's right: I have trouble with that pose in the fall and winter because my brain is using my eyeballs (overmuch?) to tell it which way is up.
Caveats: It's been really sunny the last couple of days, and I spent Sunday recovering from Saturday night. The real test will be later this week when the rain returns.

Nun forgets how to use calendar.

Oct. 12th, 2025 12:21 pm
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Taller Woman had surgery for cancer. Again. Last week. I'd promised to visit her in the hospital. She told me when it was happening, but I didn't put it in my calendar, so I missed the window. I was in New York when she told me, and thoroughly distracted, but I still feel terrible about it.

And last night, I thought I was going to Seacompression, but neau. I found out at almost the last minute that it's next month. At least this had a happy ending: I found out before I got on transit, so I went to the Merc and said hi to the gang.

Come back, Mighty Orb!

Oct. 10th, 2025 08:33 am
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Mayunn, several times in the last couple of weeks I haven't wanted to do squat after sunset. Not circumflatulation, not reading, not house cleaning. I go to bed early and sleep the sleep of the just: eight hours last night, no less than ten one night last week, and no less than seven per night since Sunday.

How do I explain this? The rain is starting to return — no need to water my outdoor plants for a few months, yay — but most of all, Seattle will be Down The Hole in under a month because it's up above 47°N.

Is it time to get a happy lamp? I dunno. Mornings aren't a problem for me. I just want my evenings back. Drink more tea? Maybe.

volunqueering

Oct. 7th, 2025 06:57 am
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Lambert House last night, including database monkeying. It all went pretty well, and maybe too well: the troubled youth that the facilitators have had to make... arrangements for didn't show up this time. My fellow volunteers say that with any luck, it's because he's busy with school. He's a much more ambitious student than he let on to me.

And with all due love & respect to St. Mark's, I can't wait to get back into our own space. Why? Less noise because the groups are on a different floor from the main social areas, and we'll be able to set up the video conferencing and leave it up. And for me, the house takes less time to get to than St. Mark's, which is on the edge of an expensive residential area and therefore not as well served by transit.

Nun takes the Tickler to Burnerland.

Oct. 5th, 2025 08:49 pm
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Last night was one of the Petting Zoo parties down in Sodo, to which I took the Tickler. Since this was a Burner-flavored* event, there were thundering herds of scantily-clad sweet things. The Tickler and I had huge fun watching people, or as they put it, being door queens.

Shallow fashion detials: my newish hot pink latex bodycon tank dress with "Slut" in Barbie-like type across the chest. Over that, my leather harness wrapped with two strands of blue electroluminescent wire with the drivers taped to the harness. I brought spare tape and batteries in case I needed them, so of course I didn't. Those batteries had probably been in my Burning Man bins since 2018. It is to laugh.

Was it kind of queer? Yes. Did the kinky folk show up? You know they did, but not quite in the same numbers as last time. Were the DJs good? Yes, notably a young lady called DJ Zucchini, who was mentored by DJ Trinitron. Trinitron had just come from the baseball playoff game and had gotten some attitude from the door people because she was wearing her Seattle Mariners shirt, and they didn't know who she was. Nyuk nyuk nyuk!

Today, Tickler-friendly, i.e. lactose-free, breakfast, then lunch at Made In House.

In summation, much fun.



*The Petting Zoo folks aren't really affiliated with Slutgarden as I'd thought. They just share personnel, including the founders of Petting Zoo.

a mellow munch

Oct. 3rd, 2025 05:59 pm
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I went to the first-Thursday queer women's munch at the Wildrose last night. There were only eight people there, but that's not bad because I don't get the FOMO because I can't get to half the people in the room. I could have stayed home and circumflatulated, but I'm glad I didn't. Happiness is hanging out with people you have a lot in common with.

I still haven't seen Martha, the 'Rose's owner, all year. That's too bad.

I remembered how to sleep.

Oct. 2nd, 2025 08:38 am
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After udon courtesy of the Wendling for dinner, a little housework, and (yeah, I know) Duogingo, I started to feel sleepy. It had been a rainy day, and local sunset yesterday was at 1837. So I listened to my body and went to bed.

I woke up afet 2230, took off my makeup and brushed my teeth, and fell asleep again around 2315. I slept until my alarm went off at 0600.

That's over ten hours of sleep. And I got what I thought was a decent night's sleep Tuesday night. I'm not entirely sure why this happened, but this is definitely a gift horse situation.
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